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Panel Discussion Pet Peeve

I thought this Reddit thread was particularly interesting – it started with someone grousing about a panelist who read their paper for 35 minutes when only 15 were allowed. There are sooooo many bad things to be said about this one post….

  1. How rude to exceed the time given to read your paper!
  2. Why are you reading a paper that everyone could read either before or after the panel?
  3. Where is the “discussion” in a “panel discussion?”

Evidently, this post leads to a larger conversation about your particular “panel-related pet peeve” with 32 comments and 166 people weighing in with an up or downvote.

Here are the top answers to a panelist going over time:

  • Cut people off if need be. It need not be incredibly hostile. Something like, “Perhaps some of the details you wanted to discuss will come out in the Q&A” or something like that.
  • Stand up, wave your hands, and then speak out loud.
  • Hold up a “stop speaking” sign for several minutes.
  • Hum music into my mic Oscars-style if they go over.
  • Mute their microphone.
  • Tackle the guy.
  • Have two goons escort him out.
  • The American Shakespeare Center hosts the Blackfriars Conference for which, if you go over time, someone dressed in a bear costume will come out and take your paper away.
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The thing is, somebody has to keep control of the panel – and that’s control over the content and time. That person is the moderator. As a Reddit commenter said, “I guarantee everyone in the audience thought you were a hero… those situations are so awkward and everyone appreciates the one that shuts it down.”

Obviously, this particular pet peeve struck a chord. It is when the moderator DOESN’T do anything that strikes a nerve.

In the recently released 2024 Panel Report, we asked about pet peeves – and the number one pet peeve should not come as a surprise. It is the same in 2024 as it was in 2014 and in the Reddit post – ineffective/poor moderation.

What’s your biggest pet peeve when it comes to panel discussions?

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